"Dee Dee is a caring and compassionate death seeker. She has a curiosity and uninhibited comfort surrounding the end of life that I really admire. I was drawn to Dee Dee because of her deep longing to understand people at their end. She is open and honest about her own journey and shows great love to those she serves". RG, Oregon
"What a gift Dee Dee was to me. My son passed away suddenly, and unexpectedly. I was emotionally, physically, and spiritual devastated. With her soft, compassionate way, Dee Dee guided me through each step I needed to do. From calling the mortuary and coroner, to holding my hand through the roller coaster of grief, sorrow and all else that arises, she was there. I am so grateful for her wisdom and advice in navigating the difficult journey one is faced with upon a loved one’s death. Thank you, Dee Dee". SB, California
"Dee Dee’s experience with end-of-life care was a huge comfort to me when my grandmother passed. Her knowledge of hospital protocol and her calm, grounded presence was so reassuring. I felt I was able to be of some help under Dee Dee’s guidance and was more fully present when my grandmother made her transition. I really appreciated you being there Dee Dee! It truly was so much more peaceful and caring because you were there. Thank you!" HT, California
"I began working with Dee Dee almost two years after the passing of my mother. We had a strained relationship, and I could not get in touch with my grief. Unfortunately, I was experiencing increased bouts of anger that were threatening my relationships with family and friends. While I didn’t see the connection, Dee Dee helped me get underneath the anger and begin the work of sorting through the layers of stories and feelings interrupting my happiness. Dee Dee asked questions that me think through the past. She listened so deeply that I felt safe exploring out loud new ways to view the future. My work with Dee Dee has been life changing and I highly recommend her methods to anyone looking to process loss, learn patience with yourself, and/or embrace the present." IW, California
"Dee Dee’s calm compassionate nature, combined with her insight and expertise in navigating end-of-life issues make her a wonderful resource for those facing this very challenging time in life. I wholeheartedly recommend Dee Dee if you need guidance, dealing with your own end-of-life care or supporting someone who is dying". AL, California
"Grateful to have had the experience and support of going through the darkness of grief and loss with Dee Dee. Healing is hard, exhausting and draining, but the strength and love that was shared with me and the compassionate wisdom guided me through it one day at a time, and I learned how to look for the happiness amid the heart-break". LW, California
"Loosing someone is hard. I thought I was ready, I thought I was going to be able to handle it. But that was not the case. Because DeeDee was there, Ruth's passing was peaceful and the only thing I had to do was embrace the moment with Ruth. She was there for both Ruth and I. Because she was there I was able to say goodbye and I feel that at that moment Ruth was at peace and she let go when she was ready. It was hard but I know at that moment Ruth was in a peaceful place because thats the way DeeDee made it". TP, California
"DeeDee is truly a gem on so many levels. She is very passionate about her role in helping others and her ability to listen attentively to your concerns is very heartfelt. DeeDee is diligent in her quest to help you reach a resolution and/or peace with your current situation. You would definitely benefit from working with her". PS, Washington
"A Necessary Conversation became such a blessing to me as we entered the final stage of my dad's life through hospice. The articles and tools I was able to share with my friends and family were invaluable in assisting, supporting, and celebrating the end-of-life experience". TL, Missouri
“Dee Dee helped our entire family organize, prepare and process the passing of our Mom. Losing a matriarch of four boys was hard but Dee Dee her process at A Necessary Conversation was missing piece and process that gave us the strength we needed to prepare and then put into action all the things required to accept Moms passing as a natural and wonderful process for someone we loved. We felt a little lost. She was there for us when she passed and reminded us of the things we needed to do - including helping us organize the Celebration of her life so we could all speak and share. I’m at peace as I know my Mom is. We all need help when this mortal moment arrives, and Dee Dee knew how to mobilize us so we might celebrate and participate instead of mourning and withdrawing. Thank you “ MT, Connecticut
"Dee Dee is incredibly compassionate and knowledge and take having difficult conversations and planning around end-of-life matters to a whole new level. I highly recommend Dee Dee and a necessary conversation to bring healing and peace to anyone struggling with or avoiding the topic of death and dying". DD, California
"I have known Dee Dee for close to twenty years. She is honest, reliable and a woman of her word. You cannot go wrong when it comes to Dee Dee. I could not recommend her more highly." DL, California
"Dee Dee has her finger on the pulse!!! She will get to the hard topics gently!" DE, Massachusetts
"Dee Dee has been such a comfort for me. I no longer belong to the same religion as my family, which caused a lot of mental and emotional inner conflict. With Dee Dee’s help, I was able to be calm through the four months of hospice, as well as funeral planning and expectations for my dad". AN, Washington
"Dee Dee offers a critically needed service during our most vulnerable moments. Her empathy, caring and knowledge will assist those who need support during life’s largest challenges." JJ, California